I would say that less than 10% of the people I write to write back to me. I write to all kinds of men who are both younger and older, of all races,single and divorced, etc, etc.and I’ve been very, very careful to use all of your tips, and I read your blog faithfully. I feel like I’m the ONE outlier who can’t make your tips work for me.Just because I get guitar lessons doesn’t mean I’m going to be performing like Clapton any time soon.And just because you bought Finding the One Online and rewrote your profile and tried my email technique doesn’t necessarily mean that you nailed it.You can’t judge yourself against the best, no more than I judge my writing on this blog against Philip Roth. And if you think YOU’VE got it bad, go check out the numbers for men who are writing to women. Your profile and first emails aren’t as good as you think.
I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.
It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others.
The protocols and practices of dating, and the terms used to describe it, vary considerably from country to country and over time.
On the plus side, those who find us appealing, find us REALLY appealing.
🙂 He’s out there- you just might need more time and effort to find.
It’s a seller’s market and they can afford to be choosy. In reality, failure is the default setting in dating.