Christian quotes about dating relationships

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I’d rather be with someone ignorant who has a heart to learn than an expert who’s convinced she has all the answers. This is a favorite line of everyone who thinks their dating advice poops golden little marriage eggs.Everyone has advice to offer, and it’s usually the ones with the most ridiculously screwed-up relationship history that are most confident in raining that advice ceaselessly upon you.(Before I rile up too much teen spirit, let’s start with Prov and Prov . In our celebrity-loving Christian culture, anyone with a success story is ready to create a new theology or teaching to sell to the Body of Christ. What worked or failed for them won’t always give you the same results.

Real talk: modesty is great, and sexually-explicit Western culture does provide a challenging climate for men, but let’s not pander to the irresponsible and frankly ridiculous idea that it’s a woman’s responsibility to manage a man’s sex drive. Of course, if Jesus explicitly commanded you not to date, who am I to argue? Allow me to depict one’s commitment level in a healthy marriage: The dating process is your chance to experience the ups and downs of a real relationship without the pressure of flat-lining.For those unfamiliar with the subject, dating is a relatively simple procedure that must always be hopelessly complicated for any Christian daring to try it out.If you’re feeling lucky, try Googling “christian dating advice.” We’ll see you next week…But wait!If you’re emotionally broken or scarred, go get healing. But if you’re healthy, the only rule you need to follow is simply to be you.Self-development is important, but that’s about you, not about what you think some random bro wants to see.If my experience serves me correctly, however, your memory of that command will probably be inversely proportional to the hotness of your potential date. Placing marriage-esque commitment expectations on yourself or your date will just set you both up for an ER’s worth of emotional damage. Here’s what you’ll typically hear from someone claiming to be “in the friendzone.”, not what he or she is not.

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