Dating and relationships are hard enough, even with great communication. Trust becomes difficult to produce and keeps healthy and lasting love at a distance.
The bottom line is everyone has their own comfort levels, and that may not be tied to how they feel about you. Not wanting to discuss an issue at the time you want means they just don’t care.Without even talking to him or getting the facts, I made a decision to distance myself. There are so many reasons why a kiss doesn’t surface on a first date that has nothing to do with you or the chemistry.I thought if he’s not going to give me as much as I give him, why invest in this? Then I slowly got used to it and learned that that’s just the way he is. The person may want to kiss you, but the timing may be off, or the activity doesn’t allow for that moment.I have a friend who will engage in lightning-speed text banter for hours, then suddenly go dark and completely ignore a question I asked for days.At first, I was offended (hurt) and questioned our friendship. So I accepted that and adjusted, and we’re still good friends. If they don’t try to kiss you on the first date, it means they’re not into you.We’ve all made assumptions and jumped to conclusions.