- Red flags - Avoiding resentment - Assessing your assets - Handling blockers - Getting the woman to chase you - Relationship maintenance - Deciphering “Womanese” - Screening out takers and users - Managing commitment expectations - Buying signals: the way she shows interest Best book ever written on how to handle relationships! This book IS NOT about pick-up or general PUA stuff cuz it has got nothing to do with that crap. It's all about handling relationships and how to keep your woman in love for the long haul.
I asked her out via text, she answered via text, and we went out in person and had a great time. The other point he makes, which is quite valid, is that when you’re communicating via instant message, you can’t see her body language.
This does not mean his students only should go for average looking women but they are encouraged to go beyond looks.
This is not a book for men who only wanna go for slutty skanky hotties!
The reader is of the opinion that when a woman sends you an IM or text, and you don’t respond immediately, then you’re creating significant amounts of interest by being a challenge.
Doc Love’s reply is that you shouldn’t be making ANY kind of contact with her between dates except over her home phone or cell phone, and then, you’re only getting in touch to make dates. Here’s a quote from Doc’s reply: ” She would develop higher Interest Level in you if you have her thinking, ‘Gosh, this guy doesn’t e-mail me, he doesn’t instant message me, he doesn’t text message me, and he doesn’t phone me — I wonder what the heck he’s up to.'” This makes sense, but I think it might be a little bit too strict.
Don’t take her to dinner or a movie on this first date.