Do your own thing – Never make us the centre of your world.
A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.
Hang out with your friends, go for a meal with your sister, have drinks after work, and after a certain amount of time you will both start doing many of these things together.
Take it slowly and don’t rush into spending every evening with your new man.
He has laid all his cards on the table without even realising it.
Now you know he’s taking this thing seriously and you can probably stop calling it dating and start using the word relationship.
This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.