Playing hard to get online dating

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It’s not my place to judge, but everyone’s entitled to his/her preferences.

Write to more Indian men and your response rate should go up by 15%.

And it makes sense since the most attractive men get 11 times more email than the lower-rated guys.

The point is, Mellie, you’re dealing with men who are at the top of the dating totem pole – 35-40 year old cute, successful guys in New York City. It’s not that you’re wrong for wishing that things came a little bit easier; it’s that you’re hoping for a different reality, which generally is not a good use of your time.

I read what I purchased from you faithfully and followed everything you said.

I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.

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And now you want to know when the payoff is going to come. Since I don’t know you at all, I’m just going to be objective and theorize why you might not be doing as well as you’d like. And while they still write disproportionately to the best looking 33% of women, normal women still get plenty of attention online.When I met him, he was on the sixth or seventh version of his profile!While the average person probably has a lot of potential matches out there, some of us are different in various ways and there will simply be fewer who find us appealing (this was definitely true for me).It’s a seller’s market and they can afford to be choosy. In reality, failure is the default setting in dating.I don’t know where you pulled up that women get a 60% response rate – maybe one of my customer testimonials – but the reason I used it is because it’s unusual and impressive. It can be fun, terrible, exciting, hard — the adjectives used to describe it are endless.

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